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The Show Must Go On

Tabitha came into our meeting, her hair hanging in her face. “Does anybody have a hair clip in here!” she called out.  I’ve written about Tabitha before. She had been a professional dancer for years, and she still believed that her career continued on stage.  I went to my purse and found a hair tie. “Here, Tabitha,” I said, gently pulling her hair back into a half-up, half-down do. I finished fixing Tabitha’s hair and looked at her. Her bright blue eyes shone out from her wrinkled face. She was a beautiful woman, especially now that everyone could see her face.  “You’re ready for the big show!” I smiled, knowing that there was no actual show.  “Ah yes! The big show!” Tabitha said, immediately jumping into an imaginary world with me, as I expected her to.  “You know, I’m a little nervous about the show. Not all the girls get along. It’s like one does this, one does that…you know how it is.” I smiled as Tabitha stared off in thought.  “…but you know, I think it will be alright,” she continued. “Once I get up there, it will be alright,” she said, nodding her head.

Broadway

“And a one, two, a one, two, three, four,” Tabitha counted out. Her feet tapped rhythmically across the floor as she counted out her dance steps. She swept an unruly piece of hair out of her eyes as her shoulders moved in time with her feet. Her cane was meant for walking, but mostly Tabitha used it for dancing. “Da, da, da, ta, da, da,” she sang. And then, “Listen! I need six women up here on this line!” she called out to her audience. Tabitha’s audience was a group of women in wheelchairs. Her enthusiasm, however, was unwavering. “When I was on Broadway, everybody knew you had to work early and stay late,” she explained to a staff member. Tabitha was a perfect example of a person with dementia who lived in her own reality. In Tabitha’s world, she was still a dancer, and she was proud of this fact. No one ever tried to convince her otherwise, either. “Tabitha, can you teach me some dance moves?” I asked her. “Sure, honey, now look at this one,” she offered, gliding her feet across the carpet to a tune that no one else could hear.

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